Thy hand, in sight of all my foes,
Doth still my table spread;
My cup with blessings overflows,
Thine oil anoints my head.
Isaac Watts
Sufficient:
: having or providing as much as is needed
The question, "how much more would it take to make you happy," and the answer, "Just a little more," have become cliche'. Wisdom furrows our brows, and we nod in subdued condescension as we consider the discontented masses. Ah, those discontented masses - from within whose ranks, very few of us will admit to membership. Yes, are we not all, to some extent, discontent? None of us would mind having just a little bit more - be it wealth, or skills, or power, or prestige - few would turn down a small boost or bonus if it was offered to us.
But God's sufficiency goes far beyond being content with our possessions or position.
Consider the following story pulled from NBC News' Today Parent page - titled:
This is the most effective way to discipline kids, according to science
"Getting small kids to behave can be a delicate science for parents. Some worry about being too harsh; others are left exasperated by children who seem out of control. Many try to avoid yelling or spanking, and even time-outs are seen as too strict in some parenting circles.
But parents shouldn't be afraid to punish: techniques like timeouts can be effective if done correctly, researchers at the American Psychological Association's annual convention in Toronto said on Thursday."
So far, not too bad - right? Let's keep reading.
"[The] study looked at the most effective way to deal with misbehaving toddlers. Based on detailed interviews with 102 mothers, [Robert] Larzelere divided the kids into two categories, depending on their behavior, and found each type responded best to a specific approach.
Easy-to-manage kids:
These are toddlers who whine or try to negotiate with you when you ask them to do something they'd rather not do. But they're not very aggressive or disruptive.
Best way to immediately improve behavior: Offer compromises.
Hard-to-manage kids:
These toddlers are much more aggressive: They may act defiantly, ignore you or hit a sibling. "If a parent says one thing, like 'Time for bed,' they not only say no, they run in the other direction or they have a temper tantrum," Larzelere said.
Best way to immediately improve behavior: Offer compromises."
With a toddler?!
We all justifiably begin to wonder if Robert Larzelere has actually ever raised kids, and from which progressive corner of Madison or Berkeley he extracted those 102 mothers for the interviews.
But don't get me wrong, I don't criticize the logic, because in a way, this makes complete sense. In our progressive age, who's to say that your way is right, and the child's way is wrong? If divine authority has been hijacked, then exactly where do we derive authority from? What gives a parent the right - to be right? Why is the kid necessarily wrong? Compromise makes complete sense if we understand the basic premise of humanistic progressivism.
These ideas are merely an expansion of the progressive humanistic philosophical foundation, that rather than God being sufficient - Man is sufficient. Each man or woman is self sufficient. The ramifications of such a philosophy are broad - so broad, in fact, that even as Christians we have adopted wide swaths of the philosophy for ourselves.
Let's do a quick analysis. Ask yourself - Is God enough for me? Now ask yourself that question as I begin a rather personal and intrusive list...
Do I really need:
My day to go as planned?
That relationship?
My hobby?
My music?
My health?
That skill?
Do I really need the affirmation that I get from Facebook?
My children's success?
My success?
My social status?
My reputation?
My friends?
My children to be quiet?
Now, we need to note which items from the list made us cringe, and then take flight for a bird's eye view and a reminder of our smug selves criticizing those discontented masses. Remember your criticism of the discontent? Look down there - do you see yourself among them?How many of us are an automobile accident away from discontent? How many of us are a mere phone call away from doubting the all sufficiency of God?
We need to note which of those made us cringe, and not be so hard on the liberal progressive psychologists who infer from our behavior that there is no higher authority than our own desires. If we decide that what God has given us, is not enough, then we too have demanded a compromise from God. We too have petulantly stormed in the face of our Heavenly father, and expected Him to capitulate.
Is God sufficient for you? Pause and think. Is God sufficient for me?
I want to quote for you some of the lyrics we sang a few weeks back in church. I presented this theme that day, and we coupled these songs to the theme of God's sufficiency.
Ask yourself as you hum these familiar tunes - is God enough for me?
The love of God is broader
than the measure of man's mind;
and the heart of the Eternal
is most wonderfully kind.
If our love were but more faithful,
we should take him at his word;
and our life would be thanksgiving
for the goodness of the Lord.
Great is Thy Faithfulness,
Morning by morning new mercies I see;
All I have needed Thy hand hath provided,
Great is Thy faithfulness, Lord unto me!
Now, Lord, I would be Yours alone
And live so all might see
The strength to follow Your commands
Could never come from me
Oh Father, use my ransomed life
In any way You choose
And let my song forever be
My only boast is You
What love is this, that you gave your life for me
And made a way for me to know you
And I confess you're always enough for me you're all I need
Day by day, and with each passing moment,
Strength I find, to meet my trials here;
Trusting in my Father’s wise bestowment,
I’ve no cause for worry or for fear.
What God deems best to give each of us, each day - is enough.
He is Sufficient.
I've included links to a few of the songs below.
There's a Wideness In God's Mercy - Frederick Faber
Great is Thy Faithfulness - Thomas Chisholm
All I Have is Christ - Sovereign Grace
What Love is This - Kari Jobe
Day by Day - Karolina Sandall-Berg
Article noted above can be found here:
by: A. Pawlowski, Aug. 6, 2015 at 1:06 PM
http://www.today.com/parents/how-discipline-kids-new-research-shows-what-works-t37141
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